"I no longer have the energy for meaningless friendships, forced interactions or unnecessary conversations. If we don’t vibrate on the same frequency there’s just no reason for us to waste our time. I’d rather have no one and wait for substance than to not feel someone and fake the funk."
"once women have lost her and then found her again, they will contend to keep her for good. once they have regained her, they will fight and fight hard to keep her, for her their creative lives blossom, their relationships gain meaning and depth and health; their cycles of sexuality, creativity, work, and play are re-established, they are no longer marks for the predations of others; they are entitled equally under the laws of nature to grow and to thrive. now their end-of-the-day fatigue comes from satisfying work and endeavors, not from being shut up in too small a mindset, job, or relationship. they know instinctively when things must die and when things must live; they know how to walk away, they know how to stay. when women reassert their relationship with the wildish nature, they are gifted a permanent and internal watcher, a knower, a visionary, an oracle, an inspiratrice, an intuitive, a maker, a creator, an inventor, and a listener who guide, suggest, and urge vibrant life in the inner and outer worlds. when women are close to this nature, the fact of that relationship glows through them. this wild teacher, wild mother, wild mentor supports their inner and outer lives, no matter what. so the word wild here is not used in its modern pejorative sense, meaning out of control, but in the original sense, which means to live a natural life, one in which the creature has innate integrity and healthy boundaries. these words, wild and woman, cause women to remember who they are and what they are about. they create a metaphor to describe the force which funds all females. they personify a force that women cannot live without."